This is somethin which we either get a lot or give a lot and the best part of is that itz FREE!!!! I guess that where advice kinda of never getz itz due importance simply coz itz dispensed free of cost.. I guess for the receiver he looks like "Hell she/he goes again" and for the giver "Hell, atleast hope this time around she/he takes you seriously"
Last week, which has been a week of ADVISE for me, I felt its only fair that I blog on this, simply coz for most of the time I use to dispense ADVISE to all my friends, simply coz I believe I always strive to attain perfection and I wanted the rest of the lost to do the same as me. But guess this week has shown me that I'm no where close to be a PERFECTIONIST, well I believe that simply coz if I was one, then I wouldn't have been advised on various ways I go about my life.
Frankly speakin, few were one which I think I myself had told that I need to slow down for my own good, guess it was just a coincidence that I had two of my very good friends tellin me slow down. But yeah when I tell somethin to myself I give it cent percent or more, but when the same people go about town tellin about how they should help me achieve my decision, I feel they are overstayin my welcome. Well end of the day guess they are doin it for my own good. :-)
But definitely I've been blessed to meet and know few of them, who for nuts sake can't advice but when they are given some wise ones, they just can't register that damn it for their own good. Now that can get irritatin to a large extent when you see that the person is repeatin the same mistakes over and over again.. Guess they are determined to learn the hard way.
End of it, guess ADVISE, whether given free or taken for free, I believe if the person to whom itz being dispensed is in no mood to implement the same, then itz just waste of our times. I would rather suggest that the same time is spent with some orphans or an old age home. Sure it would be worthwhile rather than wastin our precious time.
Last week, which has been a week of ADVISE for me, I felt its only fair that I blog on this, simply coz for most of the time I use to dispense ADVISE to all my friends, simply coz I believe I always strive to attain perfection and I wanted the rest of the lost to do the same as me. But guess this week has shown me that I'm no where close to be a PERFECTIONIST, well I believe that simply coz if I was one, then I wouldn't have been advised on various ways I go about my life.
Frankly speakin, few were one which I think I myself had told that I need to slow down for my own good, guess it was just a coincidence that I had two of my very good friends tellin me slow down. But yeah when I tell somethin to myself I give it cent percent or more, but when the same people go about town tellin about how they should help me achieve my decision, I feel they are overstayin my welcome. Well end of the day guess they are doin it for my own good. :-)
But definitely I've been blessed to meet and know few of them, who for nuts sake can't advice but when they are given some wise ones, they just can't register that damn it for their own good. Now that can get irritatin to a large extent when you see that the person is repeatin the same mistakes over and over again.. Guess they are determined to learn the hard way.
End of it, guess ADVISE, whether given free or taken for free, I believe if the person to whom itz being dispensed is in no mood to implement the same, then itz just waste of our times. I would rather suggest that the same time is spent with some orphans or an old age home. Sure it would be worthwhile rather than wastin our precious time.
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That z a good advice - to spend time with orphans or old age home :)
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